I think that we come pre wired with 'types' that we like.
It took me the longest time to figure out why I got hooked on shadesong's journal. There's a geek look that always manages to catch my eye. Call it my 'first impression'
And if there is any doubt that you lock onto an image and it sticks, allow me to demonstrate with a scary parallel with one of my oldest and dearest friends who I love dearly and will til' I die, Next to the more recent journal I've added.
And yes... as a kid, Lala Ward was meant to be mine.
EDIT:Being Poly means never having to say, "Oh, yeah. You too honey." Because she already knows how much you love her, and the only time you say it is because you want to... not because you have to.